Allah S.W.T. emphasizes the worth and importance of parents at various places in the Holy Qur'an. It is enough for the wise person to realize this when he observes that the obedience of parents is mentioned side by side with the worship of Allaah. It is also authentically mentioned that if your parents are not pleased with you all your worship and good deeds are gone waste, they don't have any value. And it is not limited for the living parents only but even if they are dead you must remember them by praying for them, attributing some good deeds to them, and rectifying their faults (if any) in a proper way. Perhaps at the time of departure from the world the parents were not pleased at heart with their children, but if the children give due attention to their parents' well-being in the Hereafter by some good deeds, they become pleased to them.
The world that is five feet under the earth is certainly a dreadful place for the sinners. Although we should consider that all are pious and righteous but one never knows in what condition there the diseased is. Perhaps they are enjoying the fruits of their good deeds and perhaps they are in trouble because of some lapse during their lifetime.
So if we perform any good deed on their behalf or offer a Namaaz for them they surely are benefited by it, and it is said that our 2 rak'at Namaaz for the Marhoom is better for them then the riches of the whole world. If they are not in any trouble there then the bounties are increased for them and if they are in any tribulation then their pain is lessened or wiped off. Moresover, the performer of good deed is also to be rewarded.
Some A'amaal for the benefit of diseased parents
Here below are stated some A'amaal for the benefit of diseased parents, although they are said to benefit them but the performer of these A'amaal are also nicely rewarded.
Especially on every Friday-night and on Friday children of the Marhoom should pray for their parents and give charity on their behalf.
1. Reciting Surah-e-Yaaseen is very beneficent for the Marhoom. He/she is tremendously rewarded for it.
2. If one recites Surah-e-Mulk or 7 times Surah-e-Qadr by the side of Marhoom's grave, God-forbid if any punishment is being implemented therein, it is instantly ceased.
3. Whenever you wish you can pray 2 rak'at Namaaz for Marhoom( Namaz Hadiya e waledain) , it gives a great joy to the diseased.
4. On Friday-night (Shabe Jumma) or on any day you may pray 2 rak'at Namaaz between Maghrib and Ishaa with Niyyat of Maghfirat-e-Waalidayn;
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Method of Namaz e maghfirat e waledain
Two Rakat Namaz.
In First Rakat Recite Al-Hamd and Then Ten Times..
Rabbigh Firlee Waliwaalidayya Walil Mu'mineena Yawma Yaqoomul Hisaab.
(= My Lord, forgive me and my parents and all believers on the Day of Judgement.)
And in the second rak'at after Al-Hamd recite 10 times
Rabbigh Firlee Waliwaalidayya WalimanDakhala Baytiya Mu'minan Walil Mu'mineena Wal Mu'minaat.
(= O my Lord forgive me and my parents and the believer men and women who enter my abode. )
Then complete the Namaaz as usual...
Then go into Sajdah and recite 10 times-
Rabbir Hamhuma Kamaa Rabbayaani Swagheera.
( = My Lord be compassionate to them as they were to me when I was small.)
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5. Some Tasbeeh of Salawaat and Istighfaar should be offered on behalf of Marhoomeen every now and then.
6. Pray 2 rak'at Namaaz for the benefit of Marhoom, in the first rak'at after Al-Hamd recite Surah-e-Qadr and in the second recite Surah-e-Kawthar.
7. There is another Namaaz also for Marhoom. It is 2 rak'at, in the first rak'at after Al-Hamd recite once Aayatul Kursee and Surah-e-Ikhalaas 2 times and in the second rak'at after Al-Hamd recite Surah-e- Takaasur 10 times. This also carries a great reward for Marhoom and the reciter also.
8. If at all, unfortunately, the son or the daughter did not fulfill the rights of their parent during their lifetime, then they should pray this Namaaz. InshaaAllaah the Marhoom parents shall be pleased with them: -
Time: on the night between Wednesday and Thursday. In between Maghrib and Ishaa.
Niyyat: Fulfillment of the rights of my parent(s).
Namaaz; 2 rak'at.
In each rak'at after Al-Hamd recite
5 times Aayatul Kursee,
5 times Surah-e-Ikhlaas,
5 times Surah-e-Kaafiroon,
5 times Surah-e-Falak, and
5 times Surah-e-Naas.
After you finish praying the Namaaz in this way
recite 15 times Astaghfirullaaha Wa Atoobu Ilayh. ( = I turn repentantly towards Allaah. )
Dedicate the Sawaab of this A'amaal to the Marhoom parent and you shall get the reward of fulfilling their rights.
9. If at all, you suspect that there were some wrong transactions committed by your parents so you would naturally wish that they should not be punished for that. Therefore its remedy is that first you should try to rectify if possible, try to make the wronged pepople be pleased with your parents by recompensing some thing that they would appreciate,
and then observe this prayer on behalf of your parents:-
Pray 4 rak'ar Namaaz in sets if 2 rak'at each.
In the 1st rak'st after Al-Hamd
recite Surah-e- Ikhlaas 25 times,
in the 2nd rak'at 50 times,
in the3 rak'at 75 times
and in the 4 th rak'at 100 times.
After Namaaz recite this Duaa:
Allaahumma Swalli Ala Muhammadin Wa Aali Muhammad, Bismil-Laahir-Rahmaanir-Raheem. Yaa Nooras Samaawaati Wal Ardhi Wa Yaa Ghawthal Mustagheetheen, Yaa Jaaral Mustajeereena Antal Munzalu Bika Kullu Haajatin Astaghfiru Atoobu Ilayka Mim-madhaalimi Katheeratin Li Ibaadika Qablee Allaahumma Fa Ayyu Maa Abdim Min Ibaadika Aw Amatin Min Imaaika Kaanat Lahoo Qablee Madhlimatun Dhwalamtuhaa Ayyahu Fee Nafsihee Aw Fee Ardhihee Aw Fee Maalihee Aw Fee Ahlihee Wa Waladihee Aw Gheebatun Ightabtahoo Bihaa Aw Tahammulin Alayhi Bimaylin Aw Hawan Aw Anfatin Aw Hamiyyatin Aw Riyaain Aw Asabiyyatin Ghiyaaban Kaana Aw Shaahidan Wa Hayyan Kaana Aw Mayyitan Fa Qasurat Yadee Wa Dhwaaqa Wus'ee Aw Ruddahaa Ilayhi Wat-Tahallulee Minhoo Fa As'aluka Yaa Man Yamlikul Haajata Wa Hiya Mustajeebatun Li Mashiyyatihee Wa Musriatun Ilaa Iraadatihee An Tuswallee Alaa Muhammadin Wa Aali Muhammad Wa An Turdhiyahoo Aniyy Bimaa Shi'ta Min Khazaaini Rahmatika Thumma Tahaba Lee Min Ladunka Rahmatan Innahoo Laa Tanqusukal Maghfiratu Walaa Tadhurrukal Moohibatoo Rabbi Akrimnee Birahmatika Walaa Tukhzinee Bi Dhunoobee Innaka Waasiul Maghfiratee Yaa Arhamar-Raahimeen Allaahuma Swalli Alaa Muhammadin Wa Aali Muhammmad.
( = O Light of the heavens and the earth, O Helper of the caller for help, O Refuge for those seeking protection, all requests are forwarded to You, I repent and turn towards You, for I have done harm to Your servents many times, O my Allaah, from among Thy servents many men and women have been oppressed or tyrannized by me, either bodily damage, or to the good name, property, kith and kin, children, or have been slandered or wronged, or have been made to suffer regarding partiality, or passion, envy, anger, hypocrisy, prejudice, in their absence, or presence, alive or dead. My efforts leg behind and my means grow mean to amend the excesses I committed. Therefore I beseech Thee O Upholder of requests; they obey Thy will and are ready to agree with Thy decree. Send Your Blessings on Muhammad S.A.W.W. and bring us (me and the wronged one) into harmony with each other. If it pleases You let me have my share from the treasures of Your Mercy. Verily pardoning incur no loss to You. Nor is favour against Your policy. O Lord, mercifully show kindness to me and do not put me to shame for my sins. Verily Thou art a liberal Pardoner. O the Most Merciful. Allaahumma Swalli Alaa Muhammadin Wa Aali Muhammad.)
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